Thursday, November 18, 2010

The Lonely Nights With Wet Pillow's!

Home Reminds me of Papa , mummy & bro  ..day use to start with mummy shouting everybody to get up with 2 cups of tea & 2 glasses of milk...all of us use to have it together... discussing the plan of the day or reading news papers..


Then everybody getting ready for their work..me & my bro for school and daddy for  his work & mom for her college...as she is a professor ..


Life was full of fun..school time with friends studying and gossiping about the affairs of friends ...teasing each other with their pet names..copying homeworks..sharing tiffins...and going home in a group...


Again in the evening having mom-made snacks and telling her about the whole day small stories....even if it has nothing to do with mom..she use to listen it and enjoy...asking daddy so many questions why? when? where? and patiently he use to give reply of every answer..fighting with bro for stupid things like belt, jeans, pillow...lolz...anything which is only one...:) 


Never realized the day which were passing is taking me away from home ....i passed my school and then came the college life...life in the pg started ...
where you dnt have mom to care for you and daddy to answer your questions ...and bro to fight with you and make you smile at the end of fighting...


Day use to start with roomies voice to get up , fighting for washrooms, skipping the breakfasts and ironing the uniforms.... we were 15-20 girls in our pg..everyone was alone and away from there families , so was able to understand each other's problem.. but still in the nights every pillow use to get wet in the memory of families...


Evenings use to go discussing about each other's families about what has being prepared by mom, what daddy has brought home today & what new bro has done...with a smile...


Days were passing but the memories  of family were not getting lighten... every one whose home was near by to the city used to wait for weekends and run to their homes to see their family and come back the next day...but that one day used to give us the strength to get go the rest 5-6 days..:)


But there was a plus point that we girls became a family away from families...where we laughed together , cried together and shared the memorable moments of our lives..... skipping classes one by one when any of us is not well...sharing snacks which used to come from homes...playing antakshri in the mid-night when any of us dnt feel sleepy ...shouting when any of us is talking with her bf...:)




With the ups and downs in the life ....days never stopped ...and the care and love of the family can be still felt and missed during the nights....while watching the family pics... and the lonely nights with wet pillow's ...


After completing college the day came...when i came to Delhi to work...everyone was running in Delhi ...life was so fast that it took time to mix it up with the life....


And now the days use to start with the alarm and getting up with rubbing eyes , brushing with watching news on TV to know whether everything is alright outside the world , all the roads are OK or not? 


Then getting ready and rushing for bus stops and struggling to at least get inside the bus. From bus rushing to metro's and after a long Que getting inside the metro then changing it from one stop to another again a long Que..and then finally landing up to the area and walking for 15-20mins to get inside the office....


After working for 8-9hrs with different mind sets of people again getting back to your place through the metro's & bus...till the time you reach your place the day gets passed and you are left with few hrs to spend with yourself..  but still telling your mom on calls about the the day  and telling your daddy about the new experiences you faced and letting him know that now you understand its not easy to earn money...telling your bro to study hard and still fighting on phones just to feel the past... makes the day worth...!


Life has changed , priorities has changed, people around you has changed ...at home you used to have enough time for yourself , for your family, for friends & today you hardly have time for yourself. But still there's one thing common throughout the journey is...The Lonely Nights With Wet Pillow's In The Memory of the family.....


Life is very complicated and never stops for any one...till the time you will realize the value of time it will move on...So, enjoy every second of your life ...love your family wholeheartedly and respect the people around you and their uniqueness.....you never know when you gonna miss them and you will have to wait long to see them.. and try hard to get it back, but the time which has gone will never come back ....all that we are left with is memories..... and pics ....


I might have become more matured and more experienced person but still i miss that small girl running fast to open the main gate for her daddy's car...i am still running hard but now the change is i am running for my father's dream instead of his car...and with one thing common that's The Lonely Nights With Wet Pillow's...!!

11 comments:

  1. good work..nd i miss that little girl wid whome i used to have fights evryday in xaviers..

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  2. @ ankit: thanks even i miss those days...

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  3. impressed from deepest core of my heart.u have respect for ur family this punch a deep impression in my heart.achieve ur smooth life.gud

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  4. amazing niti....just love this post from u....keep going

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  5. @ sheenaL: thanku darling....i really enjoyed writing it...as it was just a flow of feelings...:)

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  6. i can see lots of emotion in that story.had a good past..njoi ur present...so that ur future will be pleasant

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  7. thanks a lot...& yup thts true..:)

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  8. nitika really great work yaar....you r too good....thats the new part of urs i just saw...really nice....

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